Here is a passage from the New Testament concerning Gods thoughts on homosexuality:
" 18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities-his eternal power and divine nature-have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.
21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.
24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator-who is forever praised. Amen.
26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion."
If homosexuality is "OK" why would these people receive in themselves a penalty for their perversion?
What is interesting is the contrast between Romans 1 and Romans 12 where Paul outlines how we ought live:
" 1Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God-this is your spiritual[a] act of worship. 2Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will."
One other point that needs clarification: the Bible is not the focus of orthodox Christian worship. Rather it points us to the One who is to be worshiped.
"but nary a word on the specific topic of hot gay loving."
-Jesus is part of the Godhead. So if God says something about the subject, Jesus has in fact spoken because He doesn't speak independent of the other members of the Trinity
-You are attempting to argue from silence which doesn't fly here. There are many things Jesus never commented about. How do you know it is ok for you to drive? Jesus never said a word about it. Or perhaps the only cars we should drive are "Christlyers".
Part of the problem some of you are having is that you incorrectly assume that you are the center of your "universe" and "god" revolves around you, rather than the Triune God being the center and you revolve around Him.